22. Resonance - Marital Food For Thought - Jack’s Marriage Project - Jack’s Marriage Empowerment - Empowering And Inspiring Generations

22. Resonance 



How  do you resonate with others? 



Does your personality resonate  with your spouse? Is there resonance with your in-laws?Could you effectively manage relationship  cracks? Will you be prepared to make regular extended family visits? Will you keep good relationships with potential in-laws? Will you give them occasional or periodic gifts? Will there be resonance of both families? Do you have shared or common values? Is there resonance with spousal associates? Are your characters in resonance? Below are some related thoughts to ponder:





  • Family values
  • Honesty
  • Integrity
  • Investments
  • Looks
  • Wealth creation
  • Children
  • Common vision
  • Basic duties
  • Extended family relations
  • Old age
  • Priorities
  • Purchases 
  • Relations with friends and acquaintances 
  • Schools for children
  • Social life
  • Spirituality
  • Avoidance of extravagance
  • Common financial pots
  • Financial planning

Are you on the same page on most of these issues?





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